How old were you when you first had an orgasm? Woman A: I didn't have an orgasm the first time I had sex though. My partner at the time helped me climax eventually through oral sex. He was a bit older than me and was not a virgin, but very gentle and made sure I was comfortable. Woman B:
How to Give Any Woman an Orgasm in Just 15 Minutes
How to give a woman an orgasm – 9 tips to make a girl come
Let's face it — women talk. With our help and hers, of course you can get your girl to orgasm in a mere 15 minutes. Don't believe that it can be done? Well, research published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine found that the average time it takes women to orgasm was But why rush? Just because you can get your girl to orgasm in less time than a Netflix hit, doesn't necessarily mean you should, right? Another study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine , which asked sex therapists how long sex should last, found that while sex that lasted between ten and 30 minutes was 'too long', the ideal sexual duration was between 7 to 13 minutes, so by our reckoning that still leaves you with 2 minutes to come once your lady has been pleasured.
Why an Orgasm Will Hook Her Harder Than 'I Love You'
In one of my favorite scenes from American Pie , Kevin solicits relationship advice from the impossibly chill and all-knowing love guru, Jessica. He needs help with his girlfriend Vicky, who's pissed because Kevin won't say the "L" word. Jessica gives it to him straight: "You've got to either give her the big 'L' or the big 'O,'" she says. Translated, Jessica's telling Kevin to do one of only two things: either say "I love you" -- or give Vicky a great, toe-curling orgasm. I found out just how perfect Jessica's advice was during my freshman year in college and had my first orgasm with another human being.
If your partner struggles to come during sex, it can be frustrating for both of you. A study of more than 52, adults found that 95 per cent of heterosexual men almost always climaxed during sex — compared to just 65 per cent of women. Which begs the question: why are the men hogging all the orgasms and, more importantly, how can you help the woman in your life up her come-quota and join you in the pleasure circle? Psychosexual and relationship therapist Sarah Berry offers her expert tips on how, why and what to do to help the woman in your life come:.